Things are going well in Ethiopia for Jack, Solomon, and Dagim. They have attended the appointment at the US Embassy and subsequently were able to pick up Dagim's US Visa. This officially completes all of the required paperwork to get him home!! Praise God!
The rest of the days have been filled with lots of goodbyes for Dagim. His orphanage had a farewell ceremony for him which was very special. Dagim wore a traditional Ethiopian outfit gifted to him by the orphanage and his "brothers" from the orphanage had farewell greetings for him. These boys have lived together for many years, so while they are happy to see one of their "brothers" be able to leave the orphanage and join a family, it is also a sad time for them. They will certainly miss having him around the home. In addition, most of them will not have the chance to live with a family and I think this is hard on them. It is bittersweet for them to see Dagim go. Would you pray for the boys that Dagim has said goodbye to - that although they may not have an earthly father who is present in their lives, that they would be comforted and find hope in their Heavenly Father?
In a matter of hours, the boys will be heading to the airport for the long journey home. The flight is 17 hours to Washington DC! Let's just say it is a bit painful. We will be gathering at the airport on Saturday afternoon for Dagim's Welcome Home Party! Stay tuned as I will try to Facebook Live it again!
For the third and final time this year, Jack is heading to Ethiopia! He and Solomon left this evening and will arrive in Ethiopia on Tuesday morning. By God's grace, all of the required paperwork has been completed since the court date in July. We have been assigned an appointment at the US Embassy in Ethiopia on Tuesday afternoon where the final paperwork will be completed for Dagim's visa to enter the US. And next weekend Jack and Solomon will travel back to the US WITH DAGIM!
We appreciate your prayers for our family as we head into the final leg of our journey!
Well, we have made it
official!! Yesterday morning we appeared before the Ethiopian courts to
finalize our adoption. I am happy to say that we are officially a family of
7!
Like our previous
court trips, we woke up early to make our way through the busy streets of Addis
Ababa. We arrived at the Federal First
Instance Court of Ethiopia and made our way to the small court room on the
second floor. When it was our turn to be
called in, we entered with Joseph and our agency representative. The judge asked us a few questions and then
asked Joseph a few questions as well. He then asked if we loved “D” –to
which we replied, “YES!” And then he said, “Your adoption is now considered
final in the Ethiopian courts.”
So without further
ado, let us introduce you to Dagim Galbraith!
We
stopped quickly to videochat with his brothers, sisters, and grandparents back
in the US and then headed out for a celebratory dinner.
Our next
step was to obtain a new birth certificate with Dagim’s new last name,
which was successfully completed on Friday.
This completed the in-country paperwork that required our presence. Unfortunately, Dagim will not come
home with us this trip, as we will have to wait for the necessary paperwork to
be completed by the US Embassy to process his visa. Jack will travel back in September for a very
quick trip to bring him home.
The
story that began five years ago is now complete in the eyes of the law, and we
are overjoyed to call Dagim our son.
Thank you for your prayers!! God
is good!
We are here and all is well! The flight was long, but
without problems. As you can see, Dana had
plenty of leg room. J
We arrived at 730am
Ethiopian time after a 13 hour flight and were pretty darn tired. We were told, however, that “D” was very
anxious to see us, so we checked into our guest house and then headed to “D’s” home!
View from our guest house
If you all remember, we have been working on "D's" adoption
for many years. In 2012, when we left
Solomon’s orphanage, we took this picture of Solomon and his best friend “D.”
We prayed and prayed for a family for “D” and when his
picture popped up on our agency’s waiting child list about a year after adopting Solomon, we tried talking several
of our friends into adopting him. However,
as we continued to pray for a family for “D” we soon realized that God had other
plans…..He had chosen us for that task!
The process has been long and stressful over the last few
years, but it all was worth it when we saw “D” again. We had visited with him in January when we
were in Ethiopia adopting Kassahun, but things were still uncertain with “D’s”
process at that time, so this reunion was different. This time we knew for sure that he would be
our son!
“D” met us with a huge smile when we entered his orphanage
home. We learned that he was so excited
about us coming that he didn’t sleep the night before! He gave all of us a big hug, and then quickly
asked where his brothers Solomon and Kassahun were. We then were greeted by his roommates at the
orphanage, all of whom were also excited to meet “D’s” family. We had a wonderful visit with all of the
boys. We brought them a few new games
that they hadn’t played before, Connect 4 and Simon Says. They loved them! Joseph also taught them how to play
kickball. J
This time with “D” has been a huge answer to prayer. Prayers from us, prayers from “D”, and
prayers from all of you. Praise to God
from whom this blessing has been given!
Tomorrow we will head to court to make our adoption
final. And then we will be able to
officially introduce you to our new son!
After a roller coaster of emotions over the last few months, I am excited to announce that we are HEADED TO ETHIOPIA to appear in court this week for the adoption of "D."
There were times over the last few months that we were not sure that this adoption would be possible, so when we received the approval that we had been waiting for several weeks ago we were ecstatic. You see, in April of this year, the Ethiopian Prime Minister's Office declared an immediate suspension of intercountry adoptions. We were heartbroken for "D" and worried that we would never be able to complete his adoption. There were over 200 Ethiopian children who had been matched with families, who were now in a difficult spot and were "stuck". Fortunately a group of over 100 members of Congress signed a letter written to the Ethiopian Prime Minister to encourage him to allow the children who had been matched with families to continue to be processed. I'd like to publicly thank US Senator Roy Blunt from Missouri who drafted this letter, as well as US Senator Claire McCaskill and our US Representative Ann Wagner who also signed. Fortunately, many of the children matched with families are being processed, however to date the Ethiopian government has not released an official statement on the suspension or the future of intercountry adoption from Ethiopia. (Information taken from US Dept of State at www.state.gov)
So here we are, at the airport, waiting for our flight to Ethiopia. We will arrive in Ethiopia on Tuesday, spend several days with "D", and then appear in court to make the adoption final on Thursday. We have been told that "D" is very excited for us to come. Joseph begged to come along with Jack and I, so he tagging along, but the rest of the kids are at home with family. (Thanks to our tribe who are watching the rest of the kids - we couldn't do it without you!!) Unfortunately we will not be bringing "D" home with us this trip. We will just be there for court and to obtain an adoption decree and then we will travel home while our agency processes the required paperwork to obtain his visa to come home. Jack will then travel back in 6-8 weeks to bring him home.
We appreciate your prayers over the next week as we embark on another journey to Ethiopia. We are excited to be able to finally introduce you to "D" on Thursday after we attend court.
Well we are all home and have survived three weeks together in the US as a family of 6!
Many of you probably already saw our FB live post from the airport, but if not here it is for ya.
Thank you to one of my best friends, Lana, from Art&Soul Photography for catching these special moments for us at he airport! We were so happy to have the support of so many family and friends. What a fun airport party it was!
Now for the big question - how are things going?! Well, for the most part, things are going pretty well. There have been some struggles, but we knew there would be. We knew that the adjustment to a new language, a new culture, and a new family would be hard, and it has been at times. Kassahun, though, is super strong, resilient, and brave, and has been an absolute champ during this time. He has started high school and even joined a soccer team in the last several weeks. His English is minimal, but he is in good hands with the ESL teachers at his school. And he is great at soccer - scored a goal in each of his first two games!!
We are so grateful for your prayers and support during our journey to bring Kassahun home. We are honored that God has chosen us to be Kassahun's parents and thankful that you all have been a part of our journey.
As you know, we still have one more to bring home from Ethiopia. I am happy to report that the paperwork is moving along well for "D" and we have been granted the approval that we needed before he turned 16 earlier this month. We are praying that we will be able to bring him home in 2017.
We are happy to report that things are going great in Ethiopia!! The Embassy appointment took place today and went well. Kasshaun's visa will be ready for pick up tomorrow - just in time for the boys to fly out tomorrow night. With the visa that Kassahun will enter the US on he will become an automatic citizen once he hits American soil on Thursday. Praise God!
Dana actually flew home last week and is in St Louis enjoying girl time with Sophia. Everyone is looking forward to being together as a family on one continent soon!
Here are some pictures of the boys' adventures over the last week.
The first pictures are from their visit to Debre Libanos, a monastery in Ethiopia, lying northwest of Addis Ababa in the Oromia Region. Jack said the views were breath-taking, much like the Grand Canyon.
Solomon was very excited to visit his old orphanage. His friends and the nannies were so happy to see him. They all had the same question, "What are you feeding him in the US?!!"
Apparently Kassahun has made everyone an Arsenal fan. They scored some new jerseys at Addis Ababa Stadium.
A trip to Ethiopia is not complete without a visit to Mount Entoto, the highest peak overlooking the city of Addis Ababa. It reaches 3200 meters above sea level.
Well a lot has happened since our last update so I will do
my best to fill you in. We picked up
Kassahun from his orphanage last Friday and he has been with us since. His orphanage had a farewell ceremony which
included a traditional coffee ceremony with bread and popcorn. Kassahun was the oldest in the orphanage and
it was obvious he was a big brother to many of the kids. Some of the goodbyes were hard. He left the orphanage with only the clothes
on his back and the backpack that we had sent for him. When we asked if there was anything he wanted
to take from his room back to the US, he said he wanted his friends at the
orphanage to have his belongings. What a sweet boy!
After saying goodbye to his friends we headed to a local
lodge where we had lunch before heading back to the capital. Kassahun has older siblings who unfortunately
aged out of the orphanage so we were able to invite them to lunch with us. It was a special time for us to learn about
Kassahun’s life up to entering the orphanage and to learn more about his
siblings.
The boys were pretty excited as well because there were
monkeys running around everywhere!
The rest of our days have been spent completing all of the
necessary paperwork in order to bring Kassahun back to the US. Unfortunately for the boys this has meant
lots of riding around in the back of the car.
They definitely are bonding!
We have been able to obtain the adoption decree, and have
started the application at immigration for Kassahun’s Ethiopian passport. He will undergo medical testing this week
which is a requirement for submission of his case to the US Embassy to obtain
his US Visa. There have been a few
hiccups along the way but we are praying that Kass will be able to come home to
the US next week as scheduled.
Things seem to be going well as for our bonding as a
family. Kass is very, very quiet and reserved. He is SUPER polite and is constantly wanting
to serve us. After dinner yesterday we
found him with a broom sweeping from under the table. Those of you who know Jack know how quickly
this won him over. LOL! His English is minimal, but we know he will
pick it up quickly. English is actually
his THIRD language. He speaks, reads and
writes fluently in Amharic and Oromiffa.
We have been through this learning curve before and know it can be
painful for both sides at times, but we are working to put all the right
resources in place to make Kassahun successful.
We are not worried.
The last two days were very special for both Solomon and
Joseph, as we were able to travel to places and see people that were meaningful
to them before going into the orphanage.
Adoption almost always occurs as a result of loss, making it both a
joyful and sometimes painful process.
Therefore, while the last several days were exciting and fun for them, the
days were also filled with lots of emotion. In the end, both boys were grateful
to get a closer glimpse into the story that God has made for them. We’d like to
share a little about our journey, however I hope you’ll understand that we won’t
share many of the details of their stories as we feel it is important that the
stories of their past are kept for them to share if and when they would like
to.
With Joseph’s permission, we want to share a little about
our journey to his birthplace. What an adventure it was!! Our day started early as we hopped into a van
for our travel down south. We drove about
4 hours south on a paved road (with LOTS of potholes)…. and then the
off-roading began. Next, we took a dirt
road path on another 1 hour adventure.
We thought we were going to get stuck multiple times, and at one point
one of the locals had to bring over an axe to help clear the way for us. As we passed each small area of gojos (traditional huts)
we received lots of stares of wonder. It
was not common for a car to come through this area, much less with white people
inside!! As the van made its way
through the terrain, the local villagers started to follow the van – wondering of
course what was going on!!
When we finally made it to the village of 5 gojos where
Joseph was born, we saw that a small crowd had already gathered in anticipation
of our arrival. Joseph jumped out of the
van, and immediately was picked up and kissed by a number of people. The crowd around him grew large – he felt
like a movie star and said he had never been kissed so much in his life! They soon placed him on a seat made of wood in
the middle of the crowd and had us sit next to him. Then they began speaking kind words about and
to him. The local language is Hadiya,
therefore we had to bring a translator who translated to the national language,
Amharic, and then our guide translated to English for us.
Next, we were invited into their gojo where we were served
dabbo and bunna (bread and coffee.) This
is a tradition in Ethiopia when entertaining guests and even the young kids
drink the coffee! We spent about an hour
visiting in the gojo and the moments were so very special. We had lots of questions for them and they
asked us lots of questions as well.
After visiting, we headed outside for pictures. We brought a camera that was able to print
instant pictures and this was a huge hit!
We first took pictures of Joseph with some of the important people in
his life, and then we were able to take and leave pictures with some of the
crowd that had gathered. They all loved
it!
After several hours we had to say goodbye and head to our
hotel for the evening. It was the eve of
Timkat (Epiphany in the US) which is a large celebration and if we didn’t get
on the road soon we would be stuck in the middle of the celebrations in the
streets. We made it to our hotel in
Hosanna which was about a 2 hour drive just as the celebration was beginning
and then back to the capital the next morning.
If you knew all of the details of our kids’ stories, you
would see the obvious hand of God in each of their lives. They are stories of grace, redemption, and
love and we are very grateful to be a part of them.
Tomorrow is another big day as we will travel to pick up
Kassahun from his orphanage. Tonight
will be his last night FOREVER to spend in an orphanage. We are so excited to have him with us for
good!
It’s official!! Today
we appeared before the Ethiopian courts to finalize our adoption and I am happy
to say that we are officially a family of 6!
We made our way through the busy streets of Addis Ababa early this
morning and arrived at the courts after a short stop at a coffee house. Upon arrival at the court, we found several
other families from Europe, Australia, and the US who were waiting to appear to
finalize their adoptions as well. We
were one of the last families called in and the proceeding only took a matter
of minutes. Solomon and Joseph were also
with us. The judge asked us a few
questions and then asked the boys a few questions as well. He then asked if we loved K –to which we
replied, “YES!” And then he said, “Your
adoption is now considered final in the Ethiopian courts.”
So without further ado, let us introduce you to Kassahun
Galbraith!
So….what is next you may ask. Well, we have several more steps that have to
occur before we can come home to the US with Kassahun. We have to obtain the adoption decree, obtain
Kassahun’s passport with his new name, and appear at the embassy for the visa
hearing. The steps, we are praying, will
take only 2 more weeks. We have plane
tickets already booked for 2 weeks from now – so please pray with us that we do not
have any hiccups in getting the remaining process accomplished and can come
home as scheduled.
Kassahun is still at the orphanage, but we will get to pick
him up on Friday. In the meantime, we
will be going to visit some of Joseph’s birthfamily which we are very excited
about.
We are overcome with joy today to finally make our adoption official
and to introduce you to our new son. Thanks
for continuing to pray with us.
We were all wide awake at 400am local time this morning - not sure if it was the jet lag, the roosters that don't like to sleep in, or that we knew we would be meeting K today! After a wonderful breakfast and bunna (Ethiopian coffee) we headed to Waliso, about 2 hours outside of Addis Ababa, to K's orphanage. The scenery outside the city was gorgeous! The boys really enjoyed the drive.
When we pulled up to the orphanage we were barely out of the van, when we saw K waiting eagerly at the door for us. With tears in his eyes and a beautiful smile on his face, he gave all of us the BIGGEST hugs! I could never do this meeting description justice, but I will just say it was truly wonderful. Those of you who have kids know what I am talking about - the moment you lay eyes on your child - it's magical, right?
K then led us inside where we met the orphanage director and social workers. We knew that K was a big Arsenal soccer fan, so to break the ice we gave him a gift which included an Arsenal shirt. He immediately took off his shirt and replaced it with the Arsenal shirt. We then pumped up some new soccer balls that we brought and headed to the courtyard for a quick soccer game. We learned quickly when we adopted Solomon that soccer has a universal language and way of bringing people together. The same can be said of K. He really loosened up and had fun playing with the boys. He thought it was awesome to play 2 on 2 with Jack and the boys...which actually ended up having to be 3 on 1 - everyone against K!!! To say he is good at soccer is an understatement - we will definitely be looking for a team for him once we are back!
The morning included a tour of the orphanage and his room, playing with some of the other kids at the orphanage, and some question and answer back and forth with K through our social worker who translated. (K's English is minimal.) The morning concluded with us saying goodbye and K presenting us all with necklaces that he had made specifically for each of us. It was very sweet. It was hard to say goodbye, but it will only be for a week as next Friday we get to pick him up for good and bring him back to the Guest House with us.
We are all so in love with K and can't imagine the day going any better. Thank you God for the way you have formed our family. You have planned this day since the beginning of time and for that we are so grateful!
Until they are home,
Dana and Jack
(We can't post pictures of K until we pass court on Tuesday - then we can share our first official family photo!)
On the road to Waliso
Beautiful scenery on the way
Teff bales- a grain native to Ethiopia and used to make injera
We are here!! Our
journey has been long, so it seems almost surreal to actually be on the ground
in Ethiopia. Our flight was LONG (13
hours to be exact!) but good. The boys
were in heaven with their own personalized movie screens on the seat. Solomon watched SEVEN movies on the plane
ride – didn’t sleep a wink. The rest of us tried to at least get a little shut eye. It was
awesome stepping off the plane into 75 degree weather ; a nice trade for the
teens and snow/ice! We headed straight to
the Guest House for a nap and then off to dinner. Dinner was quite fun for the boys. We had traditional food and experienced some
traditional Ethiopian dancing.
Tomorrow we will travel a few hours outside the capital to
Waliso, where K’s orphanage is. We are
so excited to finally meet him in person.
He will not come back to the Guest House with us for another week as we
have to appear in court first and also have a trip planned to see some of
Joseph’s birthfamily next week.
The internet is SLOW - but will try to post as much as possible!
